Stop Bullying

I've always wondered, is there any bullying in Malaysia? Who does have the bad intention of bullying someone? What is bullying?

"Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. Bullying includes actions such as making threats, spreading rumors, attacking someone physically or verbally, and excluding someone from a group on purpose"

Bullying is not just based on physical abuse... A type of bullying also include the abusive used of verbal or threatening the safety of others. I was naive to see any bullying within my students as I always thought that people would never consider bullying anyone. Unfortunately, I realized the meaning of bullying in the hard way. And yes, I was the nerdy kid who actually got bullied despite of having the naive-innocent thought about human.

How can we stop bullying?

Bullying can be in many form. Any repetitive discomfort that a person cause to another person can also be a type of bullying.
As a witness, we should do something to defend the victim and stop the bullying.
As a victim, they need to realized that they are being bullied before confronting the bullies on their own. But these victims need to have a support group. So, find a group of friends who may not stand by you when you are in need, but at least will stand with you when you are lonely. This is when the Gossip Group is important. They may keep on gossiping about a lot of people, but they sometimes can also be the perfect fake friends who would support you in the time of depress.
But don't get depressed too much, as others might also find you annoying. Thus, the most important thing about standing up against the bullies is mentally strength. Be firmed with your decision. If the bullies came from a group, you may feel alienated or losing friends for a while, but the good ones will come around. So don't worry about those so-called friends-bullies.
And always remember that "Allah will always be with you"

"Akak tak pernah niat nak burukkan Ann" Stop with the sugar-coated words. 

Kalau tak pernah niat, tapi tetap terbuat, itu bermaksud kejahatan dah terserap dalam diri sampai tak sedar sedang dilakukan.... lagi bahaya tu~

Diperbodoh sekali maybe kerana baik hati,

Tapi kalau diperbodoh berkali-kali, itu memang dah bodoh betul....

STOP BULLYING